Before that, I will like you to know what INFATUATION also means and its effects on both.
The infatuation stage of any Relationship usually occurs in the early months in a healthy love relationship. It can involve persistent thoughts of the love object and
wanting to spend every moment with that person. That is why sometimes its not as bad as people think it is, unless there is no element of love attached to it.
When it comes to knowing what LOVE is - it is a pretty EFFORTLESS feeling. It is TRUE and PURE – you don’t need them to be any certain way for the person to love you back or show what you feel.
OBESESSION - on the other hand is putting to an extreme effort the infatuation you already feel and being not able to control it.
Usually, you see yourself as someone who doesn't matter and that person turns to be your 'idol'.
People sometimes set rules in their relationships for their obsessive partners and get furiously mad when a little of it is broken.
Too much JEALOUSY is a symptom and it kills even faster than what we all know as poison.
It is very necessary to draw a line between these two elements and free yourself from any stress. You own yourself : Your partner doesn't own. Be a free person BUT with RESPECT to eachother. Thank you.
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